Female Squirting

It’s not a myth, and I haven’t heard a proper scientific explanation that matches my experience. Let me explain…

The latest trend in science is that squirting actually a mix of pee and “liquid from the female prostate equivalent” which is supposed to be milky.

The issue with that is as follows: squirt is not acidic; it’s slightly salty water, therefore it isn’t pee. It’s reported to contain a tiny amount of urine; as well as organic sugars, and it’s also not the slightest milky; therefore that explanation falls in the water. They pretend that during orgasm women loose control of their bladder sphincter; that it just let’s loose. However from my experience it is ejected farther down the urinary tract and with more precision than pee. A woman can literally squirt halfway across the room; no woman can pee that far, pee comes out loosely not as a concentrated stream.

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being good in bed, being present in bed and soul depth

Over the years; some of my close friends have heard me say often: she wasn’t deep enough. What do you mean? They always thought in the physical realm, as if her pussy wasn’t deep enough and I had the biggest dick in the world. lol.

The question, of course, was “how was your night?”. My answer had nothing to do with the woman’s body, but her soul; or rather her ability to be present while having sex. I think a good analogy would be to add spices and seasoning to a dish. Most people are bland in bed, it’s an often unconscious activity driven by deep biological processes that they just can’t control at all. It happens fast, they have only one goal, to cum; preferably pretty fast. It’s hard for them to enjoy the process, the goal is more interesting… it’s a chase forward, and then it happens so fast they have a hard time knowing exactly what happened; it’s happening, it’s coming, I’m cumming woaoooaaaa.. I came. That’s it. lol.

Once in a while I meet a gem, someone with depth who enjoys the process and isn’t that focused on the end goal. Someone with delicate aromas in her soul, and different regions of the soul to explore and get acquainted with. Sex becomes an intricate process, allowing hours of exploration in different layers of entanglement. The mechanical aspect becomes less relevant, in fact it becomes the shadow of the main attraction, and is relegated to simply follow the whims of where deeper layers and subtleties of pleasure will lead the encounter.

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Orgasmic Meditation ( OM )

You can’t argue that combining some of the most powerful forces of the human body, namely sexuality and consciousness must produce amazing results! This is in fact what Orgasmic Meditation does; combining the potential of human consciousness with the (almost) limitless power of sexual energy. In fact it has been described by scientists as a “Mystical experience on par with a moderate psilocybin dose”. Namely that means it can create new pathways in the mind, and help you break out of your everyday habits and patterns.

One thing to note however, is that there is no orgasm involved, only sexual stimulation. Slow, repetitive and “under whelming” sexual stimulation; the kind that gets you addicted and leaves you wanting more, and more, and more; but never delivers. The idea is to use the energy generated by this “growing expectation” and direct it to expanding your consciousness.

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the art of eating delectable peaches; and the g-spot

Do you know that the lips actually swell with blood, while the entrances slowly lubricates during the phase of excitement? I mean peaches are wonderful 🙂

There are as many ways to delect on a peach; in the same way that there are a plethora of human beings and human experiences. However certain elements are almost universal; primarily enjoyment. Don’t even start if you are not enjoying yourself, if you dislike the taste, if you think it’s disgusting or if you do it solely to get something back.

The way the human nervous system is wired, the ideal way to approach sensitivity is to look at the intersection, the space between the regions of skin on the body. Where the skin changes texture and/or colour is the area where the mind will feel the most pleasure. For example on the mouth our lips are sensitive, yet the most sensitive spot is where the normal skin of the face meets the skin of the lips. Hence in the peach area, the same applies; and where the skin of the lips become the internal skin of the vagina, is another sweet spot; the same goes for the mouth area on our faces.

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Suspended time

Today as I was getting a rather way too energetic massage by a “masseuse” that was obviously more skilled at happy endings than real massages, i mean i insisted that i wanted a real massage and that i wasn’t going to pay if it was shitty.

I even stopped her and gave her a 5 minute massage so she would understand.. to which she reacted that if i continued she would fall asleep instantly.

It was a bit better afterwards, not a lot.. she still massaged bones (no no) and didn’t really slow down or put into intention into it. Of course she was tired after! Not using her body weight, going way too fast, acting probably the same way as if she was scrubbing a floor.. obviously not enjoying herself.

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When two psychics make love

A few years ago; I found myself wandering around Colombia, I wasn’t sure where I was going, or why; to be honest. In fact when I landed in this beautiful country which I had on my bucket list for multiple reasons, I didn’t have ANY plan whatsoever. The customs officer didn’t have it; i had to know where I was sleeping that night. I was kept aside until everybody had been through customs then he gave me a short lecture on how irresponsible I was. Of course I am!

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Gentle orgasms

There is a case to be made about the quality of your orgasms and it all depends on how they are “grown”, or approached.

Generally speaking people have lots of passion (or not haha) and go intensely about their sexual activity believing that intensity will eventually result in orgasms.

And so there is a tendency to push yourself or the other person towards it and “rush it out the door” if you will.

How many times I’ve heard: “yes yes don’t stop, DONT STOP 🛑” or “harder, please faster”. Or in different languages: “surtout t’arrête pas!” To be honest it annoys me generally and makes me want to slow down, if not take a break completely so we can start over haha

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Multi-layered orgasms, or orgasmic waves!

I haven’t written in years, mostly because I thought it would be better to forget about this subject of long orgasms. With recent events and changes in society in the western world, it’s become increasingly difficult to find women that have the capacity to enjoy herself enough to let go completely and indulge in pure pleasure.

However a recent visit to a world where smartphones have less than 1% penetration I’ve realized that these societal changes are actually causing a deep disturbance in women’s ability to live pleasure. In fact in that said country 100% of women I met did let go and experience long orgasms. It’s a stark contrast from the less than 1% from the recent years in Canada.

Therefore here I am again. This one is about cakes, cakes with multiple layers of “tantric” pleasure. I mention “tantric” here simply because the lover with which it happened last time likes to call it “tantric sex” ;). Basically what happened is that with a bit of persistance and proper rhythm variations, she managed to have one orgasm after the other and each time they got deeper, and deeper, and deeper; to the point where she almost passed out by the last one. She was very disoriented and needed some time to re-adjust, easily one hour, before she fully came back to herself.

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From long orgasms to Kundalini awakening

Kundalini is mythic, it’s this idea that your true self comes forward, moving from the depths of your subconscious to the surface; giving you so much energy; and the strength to become yourself. That’s the end result, but the first times it happens you actually will feel crappy, most likely, because a cleansing needs to happen first. Cleansing of your energy, of your chakras, of your beliefs; the ones you don’t need to carry anymore.

It’s an offloading, most of the time, you fall into this rather passive state where pain simply surfaces; it feels endlessly, sometimes accompanied with a minor headache, you are there; perfectly aware of what is going on, yet since all your energy is being consumed with cleansing, you can’t do much. Hold still, and wait; bear witness.

I was seeing a girl for almost 2 years, Myriam. Over time I learned of her true nature, but when the event I am about to describe happened I did not know who she really was. Still I was able to give her orgasms that lasted from a few minutes to almost 10 minutes regularly, almost every time we made love. It was beautiful, and this one time after we had a few fights in a row, she came to my lovely house and we made love in the living room in the sun repeatedly. until.. until the kundalini started flowing in her.

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But why do you care about elongated orgasms?

Whenever I talk about long orgasms, there is some kind of reaction. May it be incredulance, fascination, desire, or simply a blip, not understanding what I am talking about. The first reaction of multi-orgasmic women is: “oh I can do that”. Maybe you can have a bunch in a row, but it’s not the same thing as multiple orgasms. It’s VERY VERY different in the depth of the experience. I mean don’t get me wrong multiple orgasms are great; much deeper than regular single orgasm sexual happenings, but one orgasm can last minutes, tens of minutes, an hour. We’re not talking about the same thing at all.

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