It’s not a myth, and I haven’t heard a proper scientific explanation that matches my experience. Let me explain…
The latest trend in science is that squirting actually a mix of pee and “liquid from the female prostate equivalent” which is supposed to be milky.
The issue with that is as follows: squirt is not acidic; it’s slightly salty water, therefore it isn’t pee. It’s reported to contain a tiny amount of urine; as well as organic sugars, and it’s also not the slightest milky; therefore that explanation falls in the water. They pretend that during orgasm women loose control of their bladder sphincter; that it just let’s loose. However from my experience it is ejected farther down the urinary tract and with more precision than pee. A woman can literally squirt halfway across the room; no woman can pee that far, pee comes out loosely not as a concentrated stream.
I honestly dont’ know where it comes from, some gland maybe that the scientists didn’t dare discover since sexuality is such a taboo.
A little bit about my experience on the subject… I once had a girlfriend (15 years ago) who ejaculated like crazy. I mean we needed 3,4,5 towels when we had sex so to not stain the bed. The stain is just like a water and dirt stain, like a ring. It’s generally not that pronounced however since we did have sex many times a day, it doesn’t take long that your mattress loose value 😉
At first I felt empowered, I mean it’s such a demonstration of my masculine power isn’t it? I make my woman SQUIRT like crazy!! Over time however it got annoying as hell, a lot of preparation, stains everywhere; can’t have sex on the couch, lol, etc etc.
I remember when we first made out, it was at a music festival in a tent, and I just put my hand in her pants and I thought she had just peed on me. It wasn’t so, she got so excited she squirted !!
Making her squirt wasn’t a feat, it was the norm. She could do it easily by herself. Any man can make this woman squirt..
I learned more about that later… Eventually we broke up, I didn’t last long in relationships back then!
Afterwards I watched a lot of tutorials on the subject and read quite a lot. In porn movies there are certain actresses who do squirt quite regularly. One would think it means their orgasms as stronger however from their own confessions it seems this isn’t the case.
Then I read that practically every woman can squirt and I have to admit this is mostly true; if you take your time and they relax enough and the pleasure is intense enough. There is a particular technique at stroking the back of the clitoris (commonly known at the g-spot), with increasing intensity. Some woman enjoy that more than others (the increasing intensity). In my province (Québec) women in general have a huge problem enjoying themselves in bed so IT IS HARD. You know, control and self-awareness are real ‘flow’ killers. Flow in any enhanced sexual experience is essential, absolutely so. Flow combined with the incredible power of sexual energy produces exotic and spiritual wonders!
And so what’s the technique?
1. Definitely take your time and tease the whole body, before raising the intensity.
2. Make your way to the g-spot gently.. you want her to let go completely and she needs to trust you, almost to be in a state of trance with physical pleasure.
3. Some women who enjoy dirty talk could be helped along with that element, I’m not good at this but my intuition says it can help.
4. Go slow on the g-spot. But once it’s properly engaged you can use your two middle fingers of the hand with which you are most capable, and stroke the g-spot with up and down movement with increasing intensity and speed.
5. Sometimes applying pressure on the belly at the same place as the g-spot can help.
6. Go for it. Give it all you got, your hand might hurt and your arm will get tired, that doesn’t mean you won’t make it!
She’ll need a rest once you are done, but if you are like me, you might take advantage of that opportunity to go for another round of penetration as the feeling will be altered by her fluids and increased swollen ness.
Enjoy!