There is a case to be made about the quality of your orgasms and it all depends on how they are “grown”, or approached.
Generally speaking people have lots of passion (or not haha) and go intensely about their sexual activity believing that intensity will eventually result in orgasms.
And so there is a tendency to push yourself or the other person towards it and “rush it out the door” if you will.
How many times I’ve heard: “yes yes don’t stop, DONT STOP 🛑” or “harder, please faster”. Or in different languages: “surtout t’arrête pas!” To be honest it annoys me generally and makes me want to slow down, if not take a break completely so we can start over haha
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